God's Mercy: What It Is and How to Receive It Today

Every one of us needs mercy. We need it when we have failed, when we have been wronged, when we are sick, when we are afraid, and when we are simply tired of trying to hold everything together on our own. Mercy is what a drowning person cries for and what a loving father gives without being asked twice.

The word "mercy" appears hundreds of times in the Bible, and it is one of the most beautiful descriptions of God's character. He is described again and again as "merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and plenteous in mercy" (Psalm 103:8). In this article we will explore what mercy is, how it differs from grace, the extraordinary ways God has shown mercy in Scripture, how you can receive it today, and how receiving it changes us into people who show mercy to others.

What is mercy?

In the Old Testament, one of the key Hebrew words for mercy is chesed (often translated "lovingkindness," "steadfast love" or "mercy"), which describes loyal, covenant love that does not give up. Another, rachamim, comes from the word for "womb" and portrays the tender compassion of a mother for her child. In the New Testament, the Greek word eleos describes pity that moves to action.

Put simply, mercy is compassion in action: God seeing our need and responding with kindness, forgiveness, and help. It includes:

• Withholding judgment we deserve. "He hath not dealt with us after our sins; nor rewarded us according to our iniquities" (Psalm 103:10).
• Forgiving our sins. "As far as the east is from the west, so far hath he removed our transgressions from us" (Psalm 103:12).
• Meeting us in our suffering. "Like as a father pitieth his children, so the LORD pitieth them that fear him" (Psalm 103:13).
• Rescuing us from danger and distress. Many psalms speak of God hearing the cry of the needy and delivering them.

Mercy and grace: what is the difference?

The two words are close cousins, and the Bible often uses them together ("grace, mercy, and peace" appears in several apostolic greetings). A simple way to distinguish them:

• Mercy is not getting what we deserve (judgment).
• Grace is getting what we do not deserve (favour and blessing).

Paul brings them together beautifully: "But God, who is rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us, Even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ, (by grace ye are saved;)" (Ephesians 2:4-5). Mercy sees the sinner and does not condemn; grace goes further and gives life and adoption. Both met at the cross, where Jesus took the judgment we deserved so we could receive the life we never earned.

Mercy is part of who God is

When Moses asked to see God's glory, God proclaimed His own name: "The LORD, The LORD God, merciful and gracious, longsuffering, and abundant in goodness and truth" (Exodus 34:6). This description is echoed throughout Scripture, in Nehemiah 9:17, Psalm 86:15, Psalm 103:8, Joel 2:13, and Jonah 4:2. Mercy is not an occasional mood of God; it is His character.

Micah asks, "Who is a God like unto thee, that pardoneth iniquity, and passeth by the transgression of the remnant of his heritage? he retaineth not his anger for ever, because he delighteth in mercy" (Micah 7:18). Notice the phrase: he delighteth in mercy. God is not reluctant to forgive. He delights in it.

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One of the most comforting verses in the Bible about mercy was written in the middle of tragedy. The book of Lamentations mourns the destruction of Jerusalem. Everything seems lost. Yet in the middle of the darkness, the writer remembers God: "It is of the LORD'S mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not. They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness" (Lamentations 3:22-23).

Think about what this means. Whatever happened yesterday, whatever you did or failed to do, whatever you are carrying into today, God's mercy for today has not run out. It is fresh. You do not wake up to a God who has exhausted His patience, but to a Father whose compassion has been renewed overnight. This does not give us licence to sin, but it does give us hope to begin again.

Stories of mercy in Scripture

The Bible is full of people who experienced God's mercy. Their stories show us how mercy works.

The tax collector: mercy for the humble

Jesus told a parable about two men who went to the temple to pray. The Pharisee listed his achievements; the tax collector "standing afar off, would not lift up so much as his eyes unto heaven, but smote upon his breast, saying, God be merciful to me a sinner" (Luke 18:13). Jesus said, "I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other: for every one that exalteth himself shall be abased; and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted" (Luke 18:14). The lesson: mercy is found by those who admit they need it.

The prodigal son: mercy that runs to meet us

In Luke 15, a young man demands his inheritance, wastes it in reckless living, and ends up feeding pigs. When he comes to himself and returns home, expecting at best to be a servant, we read, "But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him" (Luke 15:20). The father did not wait for an apology speech. He ran. This is the heart of God toward every returning sinner.

David: mercy after great failure

David committed adultery and arranged a man's death, then was confronted by the prophet Nathan. His response is recorded in Psalm 51: "Have mercy upon me, O God, according to thy lovingkindness: according unto the multitude of thy tender mercies blot out my transgressions. Wash me throughly from mine iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin" (Psalm 51:1-2). He did not make excuses. He appealed to God's mercy, and found it. David's failure was serious, but God's mercy was greater.

Paul: the persecutor who obtained mercy

Paul had been "a blasphemer, and a persecutor, and injurious," yet he wrote, "but I obtained mercy, because I did it ignorantly in unbelief... Howbeit for this cause I obtained mercy, that in me first Jesus Christ might shew forth all longsuffering, for a pattern to them which should hereafter believe on him to life everlasting" (1 Timothy 1:13, 16). If God can show mercy to someone like Paul, He can show mercy to anyone. Paul's life is a standing "pattern," proof that no one is beyond hope.

The blind man and the cry for mercy

Blind Bartimaeus sat by the road when he heard that Jesus was passing. He cried out, "Jesus, thou son of David, have mercy on me" (Mark 10:47). The crowd told him to be quiet, but he cried all the more. Jesus stopped, called him, and restored his sight. Throughout the Gospels, people who cried "Have mercy on me" found that Jesus responded. A cry for mercy is never wasted.

How to receive God's mercy

Mercy is a gift, but it must be received. Here is how the Bible invites us to receive it.

1. Come humbly

"God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace to the humble" (James 4:6). Mercy is not for those who think they have no need. It is for those who admit it, like the tax collector. Humility is simply honesty before God: "I have sinned. I need You."

2. Come with confession and repentance

"He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy" (Proverbs 28:13). Confession means agreeing with God about our sin. Repentance means turning from it. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9).

3. Come through Jesus Christ

Mercy is not given because we are good, but because Christ is. "Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy he saved us, by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost" (Titus 3:5). The cross is where mercy and justice meet. Place your trust in what Jesus has done.

4. Come boldly

The Bible does not tell us to crawl to God. It says, "Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need" (Hebrews 4:16). Because Jesus is our High Priest, who sympathises with our weaknesses (Hebrews 4:15), we can approach with confidence, not fear.

5. Come expecting

Believe that God will do what He promised. "The LORD is gracious, and full of compassion; slow to anger, and of great mercy" (Psalm 145:8). Faith honours God's character.

Mercy for every situation

God's mercy is not limited to forgiveness of sin. It reaches into every area of life.

Mercy in weakness and sickness. Epaphroditus was gravely ill, "but God had mercy on him" (Philippians 2:27). We may bring our health concerns to the Lord with confidence.

Mercy in trouble and fear. "Be merciful unto me, O God, be merciful unto me: for my soul trusteth in thee: yea, in the shadow of thy wings will I make my refuge, until these calamities be overpast" (Psalm 57:1).

Mercy in shame and regret. If you have a past you are ashamed of, remember that "there is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus" (Romans 8:1).

Mercy for our families. Parents often pray for mercy for their children, and Scripture is full of such prayers.

Mercy on our nation. "Hear, O LORD, and have mercy": many prayers in the Bible appeal for God's mercy on His people and their land. We can do the same for our communities and our country.

Mercy that changes us

Mercy received is meant to become mercy given. Jesus said, "Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy" (Matthew 5:7) and "Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful" (Luke 6:36). In the parable of the unforgiving servant (Matthew 18:21-35), a man forgiven an enormous debt refused to forgive a small one, and the king condemned him for it.

So ask yourself: Who do I need to show mercy to?

• Someone who wronged you. Forgive, even if they do not apologise. "Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye" (Colossians 3:13).
• Someone in need. Mercy acts. James writes that "mercy rejoiceth against judgment" (James 2:13) and asks what use it is to wish a hungry person well without feeding him (James 2:15-16).
• Someone who has failed. Restore them gently (Galatians 6:1).
• Someone hard to love. Pray for them. Jesus said, "Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you and persecute you" (Matthew 5:44).

What if I do not feel forgiven?

Some believers confess their sins and yet feel weighed down by guilt. If that is you, remember:

• Feelings are not the measure. God's word is. If He says He forgives, He forgives (1 John 1:9).
• Receive it by faith. Thank Him for forgiveness even when you do not feel it.
• Reject the accuser's voice. The devil is called "the accuser of our brethren" (Revelation 12:10). The Holy Spirit convicts to bring us back to God; the enemy condemns to drive us away.
• Make things right where you can. If you have wronged someone, apologise and make amends, as God leads.
• Talk to a trusted pastor or mature believer. Sometimes speaking aloud brings release (James 5:16).

The Hour of Mercy

At Adoration New Life Ministry, we have set aside a weekly time called the Hour of Mercy: every Wednesday from 10:00 to 11:00 AM at Moborode Street, Aiyepe, Ijebu. It is an hour to come before the throne of grace together, to confess, to give thanks, to intercede, and to find help in time of need. There is no fee, no pressure, and no performance required. You can come exactly as you are, with a need, a burden, a question, or simply a desire to draw near to God.

If you cannot join us in person, you can send us a prayer request and we will stand with you in prayer, or message us on WhatsApp at +234 814 466 2694. You can read more about when and where we meet on our Plan Your Visit page.

Living in the mercy of God

To live in mercy is to wake up each day aware that you are loved, forgiven, and carried. It means you can face your failures without despair and your future without dread, because "the mercy of the LORD is from everlasting to everlasting upon them that fear him" (Psalm 103:17). Let that settle into your heart today.

A prayer for mercy

Merciful Father, I come to You as I am: needy, imperfect, and in need of Your help. Have mercy on me according to Your lovingkindness. Forgive my sins, heal my heart, and renew me today. Thank You that Your mercies are new every morning and that Your faithfulness is great. Teach me to receive Your mercy and to show it to others. I trust You through Jesus Christ my Lord, in whose name I pray, Amen.